Gosh how many times did I hear that the last couple of weeks when helping the girls with their Halloween Costumes? Long gone is the goulishness of Halloween and it seems like it's more of an opportunity for gals to let down their inhibitions and go all out, with an outlandish look, and it seems
SEXY is the key ingredient.First I'll confess my Halloween aspirations before I tell on my friends' desire for SEXY. You may need a little background....My husband Rick and I post daily on a website called FISHLORE about our now extensive aquatic habbit. My user name on there is MinxMermaid. One day while looking for a new Mermaid avatar, I came across a magnificant picture of a Mermaid costume, and I just HAD to have some version of that. Now, frivolous costumes are out of the budget right now, so I decided to make one. Off to the fabric mart I went and found the most glorious Mint Green Sequins for $2 per yard. But now that I had come up with this FINE FASHION CONCOCTION, where was I to GO in it?
Of course I made my little Dog Spike, My Partner in Crime! Every year there is the Haute Dog Howl o'ween parade just right across the street from my house! So....I made Spike a little Goldfish costume and we'll be a pair, Mermaid and Fish in the Howl Parade! Now lets just hope my mermaid boob doesn't pop out of the top of my blue mermaid bra when I bend over to pick up Spike! YIKES! I'll try to post pics when the whole affair is over. And by the way...I tried and tried to make Rick dress like Neptune and walk with us....to no avail!
Now for the rest of the girls....Nuvia's having a big PARTY, her annual combined Birthday / Halloween Party. geeze we went round and round on what Nuvia should be. Above all, she wanted to be SEXY, but comfortable too! At Last, Tino, her husband, solved our problem by announcing that he was going to be Hercules and wanted her to "Match". And so was created Princess Nuvia of Egypt. Back to the fabric mart we went and 6 hours later, I must admit, with scissors, Velcro, a sharpie, and a measuring tape, I took the magnificant fabric and notions we found and created and GREEK GODDESS MASTERPIECE!!! It was Short, Sexy, Classy, and comfortable.
I tried to help Katie who was sure she didn't wanted to be the female SASHQUASH her boyfriend wanted her to be...again came the innocent little cry of, "I wanna be SEXY....not a hot furry monster!!" Turns out my idea for her of Pebbles in a shimmering little cheetah material I found, she had done last year. So lets see what SEXY she comes up with on her own!
Jenna had a doubly difficult challenge...she wanted to be SEXY and EARTHY...(insert confused face here) and on top of that she wanted TWO costumes!! One for Nuvia's party nite and one for actual Haloween nite. After bouncing a thousand ideas with her, I finally left her to her own devices, cuz she wanted to "show her stomach AND her legs, but be EARTHY" huh? Well she called me today and said she was going to be a Shimmering Autumn for the party and I think she's still gonna be LeeLou for her halloween nite. (noting earthy about LeeLou, but Jenna said SEXY was more important for that nite)
So what's the moral of the story here....deep down, girls have the desire to be SEEN, and percieved as SEXY, no matter what their AGE or SIZE. Halloween just provides a safe opportunity to go for it, without social stigma or self inhibitions.
We can have a nite of "DRAMA" and still have FUN!! and tomorrow we can put our real clothes back on.
I encourage you all to tap into that desire more often and be a little daring when picking an outfit for that next date nite, or party or other occasion. There's a bit of an adrenaline rush when you Look Good and you feel Sexy! And with all the negativity in the world right now,
who couldn't use a little Sexy Rush!
Tell me about your Halloween sexy!
xoxo
Jacq